Greg Scheinman
Founder & CEO, Midlife Male Ventures | Author, Coach & Podcast Host
Key Insights from Greg Scheinman
My father passed away when he was 47. That's when I turned 47. That's when this really hit me like, hey, you know, I could squander these years or I could pour some rocket fuel on them and make this next phase the best phase of my life.
Self-care is not selfish. It's one of the most selfless things that you can do so that you can show up for the things you talked about — being a better father, a better husband.
You make the better choice in life the majority of the time, the majority of your life is going to get better. It's really that simple.
I have a virtual talk that I'm doing later this afternoon with a large business organization. These are men that have overindexed in business. But what has fallen by the wayside is health, family. And here they are in middle age where they've checked the box of finance. But if you get into some of my other apps — family, fitness, food, nutrition, fashion, style, fun — those boxes are not only not checked, but they're failing those subjects.
I'm a galactically insecure guy. And I spent a lot of years working on that. I'll always work on it for the rest of my life. A lot of it started when my father passed away.
When you get up and go to that gym, and you make the decision that's different from those other guys — you might go alone, but I've never left alone. You start to attract and repel exactly what you deserve.
I was 21, 22 years old when I landed on Harvey's desk at Miramax Films. I didn't like the way he was talking to me. My father would be rolling over in his grave if he knew I let somebody talk to me like this and I didn't knock him out, so I'm out of here.
It never occurred to me that I couldn't still be successful in the business. It never occurred to me to your point about confidence — or maybe ignorance — that I couldn't still do what I really wanted to do.
Notable Quotes from Greg Scheinman
My father passed away when he was 47. That's when I turned 47. That's when this really hit me — I could squander these years or pour some rocket fuel on them.
I'm a galactically insecure guy. I spent a lot of years working on that. I'll always work on it for the rest of my life.
You make the better choice in life the majority of the time — the majority of your life is going to get better. It's really that simple.
Frequently Asked Questions about Greg Scheinman
Who is Greg Scheinman and what is Midlife Male?
Greg Scheinman is the founder and CEO of Midlife Male Ventures, a bestselling author, performance coach, and podcast host based in Houston, Texas. He is the creator of Midlife Male — a platform, podcast, newsletter, and community built for men between 40 and 60 who are financially successful but feel restless, disconnected, or underutilized. His work challenges the widely held belief that midlife means decline, building instead a framework he calls 'mastering the middle.' He is the author of The Midlife Male: A No-Bullshit Guide to Living Better, Longer, Happier, Healthier and Wealthier, has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Esquire, Men's Health, and The New York Times, and has two successful business exits. He appeared on the Center Stage segment of Mornings in the Lab.
What is the Midlife Male Six F's framework?
Greg Scheinman's Six F's framework is the operational architecture of the Midlife Male program. The six F's are Family, Fitness, Finance, Food, Fashion, and Fun. The framework asks men to evaluate their performance honestly across all six categories — not just the one (typically finance) where they have overindexed — and to compute a genuine 'life GPA' that reflects total wellbeing rather than a single dimension of success. Greg uses this framework in coaching, in his podcast, in his newsletter, and in corporate speaking engagements, where he works with high-achieving men who have built A-plus careers while quietly failing the other five subjects.
What is Greg Scheinman's background before Midlife Male?
Greg Scheinman's career path is one of the more unusual in the wellness space. He began as an assistant at Miramax Films, where he famously walked out on Harvey Weinstein at age 21, telling him — in his own words — exactly what he thought. He then built Team Baby Entertainment, a sports children's video company he sold to former Disney CEO Michael Eisner. He later entered insurance and risk management, built a firm to over 200 people, which was acquired in 2020 when he was 47. He exited that business at the same age his father died. That parallel triggered the personal reinvention that became Midlife Male. He started the platform in 2018, conducting three years of interviews with high-performing midlife men before writing his bestselling book.
What is Greg Scheinman's advice for men in midlife?
Greg Scheinman's core advice for men in midlife operates across three levels. First: set standards rather than goals — standards are the daily operating rules that, when maintained consistently, make success inevitable rather than episodic. Second: make the better choice the majority of the time — he argues that better choices compound into a fundamentally better life without requiring any dramatic transformation. Third: stop calculating success by a single metric (usually finance) — evaluate your life GPA across all areas: family, fitness, finance, food, fashion, and fun. He also emphasizes that self-care is not selfish, that insecurity can be a driver of greatness when channeled rather than hidden, and that the men who change their lives at 45 or 50 are not the ones who had it figured out — they are the ones who stopped pretending they did.
How did Greg Scheinman overcome depression and alcohol?
Greg Scheinman addresses his experiences with depression, alcohol, and anxiety with the directness that characterizes everything in the Midlife Male brand. He describes a period in which the cumulative weight of business failure, his father's death, impostor syndrome, and the identity confusion of mid-career ambiguity converged into a dark chapter. His recovery involved not a single dramatic moment but a sustained process: stopping drinking, building consistent fitness habits (he went to the gym at 13 because he was being bullied), working on confidence and ego, leaning on his wife Kate, and eventually channeling the experience into a platform that could serve other men in similar situations. He describes himself as 'galactically insecure' even after this journey — evidence that the work is ongoing, not complete.
Where can I find Greg Scheinman's podcast and newsletter?
Greg Scheinman's content is available through Midlife Male at midlifemale.com, where subscribers can access his highly rated podcast, weekly newsletter, performance coaching services, and community events. The Midlife Male podcast features long-form conversations with high-performing men about health, fitness, purpose, finance, family, and reinvention. His book, The Midlife Male: A No-Bullshit Guide to Living Better, Longer, Happier, Healthier and Wealthier, is published by Amplify Publishing Group. He is also active on Instagram at @gregscheinman and on LinkedIn. For coaching inquiries, contact him through midlifemale.com.
Interview with Greg Scheinman — Topics Covered
- Opening: the moment a capable man notices he's disappearing (~3 minutes)
- The programming problem: following the path that ends in 'what happened?' (~5 minutes)
- Self-care is not selfish: the counterintuitive reframe (~4 minutes)
- The overindexing trap: A in finance, F in everything else (~5 minutes)
- Harvey Weinstein, Michael Eisner, and the early confidence (~5 minutes)
- Insecurity as a driver: the 'galactically insecure' admission (~5 minutes)
- Standards vs. goals: the decision that makes everything else simpler (~4 minutes)
- Building a new tribe: attracting what you deserve (~4 minutes)
- Marriage, partnership, and 25 years of accountability (~4 minutes)
- Midlife Male, the book, and what comes next (~3 minutes)
Greg Scheinman — Areas of Expertise
- Midlife reinvention for men aged 40-60
- The Six F's framework: Family, Fitness, Finance, Food, Fashion, Fun
- The overindexing trap and life GPA concept
- Performance coaching for accomplished midlife men
- Setting standards vs. goals
- Entrepreneurship with two successful business exits
- Men's health: fitness, testosterone, nutrition, longevity
- Mastering the middle: designing midlife rather than enduring it
- Insecurity as a driver of greatness when channeled
- Self-care as a selfless act for husbands and fathers
- Building quality peer groups and new tribes
- The masculinity conversation: challenging decline narratives
Watch: 3 Habits to Master Midlife
Full Center Stage interview with Greg Scheinman on Mornings in the Lab.
Watch on YouTubeGreg Scheinman — Show Appearances
- Mornings in the Lab (2026-01-25)
Greg Scheinman — Signal Brief
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